How to Talk To Your Employer About Being Paid Legally
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How
to
Talk
to
Your
Employers
About
Being
Paid
Legally
by
Lora
Brawley
of
Nanny
Biz
Reviews
It’s
never
too
late
to
talk
to
your
employer
about
taxes!
What
Are
the
Advantages
to
You?
Proof
of
Income
rent
an
apartment,
get
a
car
or
home
loan
Social
Security
&
Medicare
research
shows
the
average
legally-paid
household
employee
will
receive
in
retirement
$5
for
every
$1
they
contributed
Unemployment
Benefits
Disability
financial
help
for
any
disabling
injury
or
illness
that
doesn’t
result
from
the
workplace
(includes
maternity
leave)
Workers’
Compensation
financial
help
with
lost
wages
and
medical
expenses
due
to
injury
or
illness
in
the
workplace
Earned
Income
Tax
Credit
nannies
may
qualify
for
this
federal
tax
break
if
they
meet
the
criteria
Safe
From
Audit
thanks
to
Breedlove
and
Associates
for
info
Selling
Points
For
Your
Employer
safe
from
audit,
back
taxes,
interest,
penalties
and
fines
stay
out
of
legal
hot
water:
it’s
rare
but
an
employer
can
be
criminally
charged
with
tax
fraud
and
can
lose
professional
license
providing
legal
protections
to
your
nanny
is
just
the
right
thing
to
do
important
piece
of
YOUR
healthy
employment
relationship
essential
that
you
live
in
integrity
Know
the
Numbers
Know
what
you
need
to
make
in
gross
(before
taxes)
income.
Use
a
payroll
calculator
to
figure
out
the
gross
vs.
net
wages.
Know
your
bottomline
rate
and
how
far
you’re
willing
to
compromise.
Know
what
it
will
cost
your
employers.
(About
9
to
11%
in
payroll
taxes)
Understand
the
tax
breaks
your
employer
might
be
eligible
for.
flexible
spending
account
child
care
tax
credit
nanny
health
insurance
as
non
taxable
income
tuition
non
taxable
income
public
transportation
non
taxable
income
nanny
health
insurance
tax
credit
Getting
to
the
Conversation:
When
You’re
on
the
Job
Getting
to
the
Conversation:
When
You’re
on
the
Job
Nanny:
David,
I
have
something
I’d
like
to
talk
to
you
about.
It
should
only
take
about
5
or
10
minutes.
Do
you
have
time
one
evening
this
week
after
the
kids
go
to
bed?
Employer:
What’s
going
on?
Nanny:
There
isn’t
a
problem.
I
recently
took
a
class
on
nanny
taxes
and
I’d
like
to
talk
with
you
about
the
information
they
gave
us.
Employer:
What
did
they
say?
Nanny:
I’d
really
like
to
talk
with
you
at
a
time
when
we
both
can
focus
on
the
conversation.
Would
an
evening
this
week
work
for
you?
Employer:
Well,
Friday
night
would
be
the
best.
Nanny:
Great,
I’ll
plan
on
being
here
at
8:30.
Will
that
give
you
time
to
get
the
kids
to
bed?
Employer:
OK,
that
will
work.
The
Conversation:
During
the
Interview
Stage
sell
before
you
talk
about
money
through
job
search
portfolio
and
phone
interview
confirm
you’re
both
on
the
same
page
around
wages
and
taxes
know
your
bottomline
and
recognize
that
not
everyone
is
willing
to
pay
taxes
The
Conversation:
During
the
Interview
Stage
the
not
so
cooperative
prospective
employer
The
Conversation:
During
the
Interview
Stage
the
cooperative
prospective
employer
The
Conversation:
When
You’re
on
the
Job
Nanny:
David,
like
I
said
the
other
day
I
recently
went
to
a
workshop
on
nanny
taxes.
Being
paid
on
the
books
will
let
me
save
for
retirement,
collect
unemployment
if
this
job
ends,
claim
my
income
so
I
qualify
for
financing
and
build
a
reportable
work
history.
After
hearing
all
the
benefits
of
being
paid
legally
and
thinking
about
my
responsibility
to
pay
my
fair
share,
I
realized
I
need
to
begin
paying
taxes
on
my
income.
I
know
this
wasn’t
part
of
our
original
agreement
and
it
will
increase
your
childcare
costs.
However
it’s
important
for
me
as
a
professional
to
pay
taxes
on
my
wages.
I
did
some
research
and
there
are
tax
breaks
for
you
that
can
lower
the
amount
of
taxes
you
pay.
Sometimes
by
quite
a
bit.
Communication
Tools
making
their
arguments
your
own
State
their
objections
or
justifications
before
they
do
–
this
takes
the
emotional
impact
out
of
those
statements
and
allows
you
to
focus
on
what
you
need
to
say
instead
of
being
distracted
by
the
need
to
respond.
EXAMPLE:
“David,
I
understand
nanny
taxes
weren’t
an
expense
you
figured
into
your
childcare
budge
and
if
you
want
to
do
them
yourself,
it
will
add
another
task
to
an
already
busy
schedule.
However,
it’s
important
for
me
to
pay
taxes
on
all
of
my
wages.”
I
statements
Take
responsibility
for
your
feelings
and
actions
without
making
excuses
or
assigning
blame.
EXAMPLE:
“Although
I
haven’t
paid
taxes
on
the
money
I’ve
earned
in
the
past
year,
it’s
important
for
me
to
begin
paying
taxes
now.”
Communication
Tools
broken
record
Stay
on
track
by
stating
your
position
over
and
over
again.
EXAMPLE:
“it’s
important
for
me
to
pay
taxes
on
all
of
my
wages.”
pregnant
pause
When
you
have
said
what
you
need
to
say,
stop
talking.
EXAMPLE:
The
Conversation:
When
You’re
on
the
Job
Where
Your
Employers
Can
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talking
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link
to
this
video;
please
share
with
your
nanny
friends
and
group!
downloadable
handout
that
outlines
what
I’ve
shared
here
today
downloadable
handouts
to
give
or
email
to
your
employers
links
to
payroll
tax
calculators
links
to
Nanny’s
Tax
Questions
Answered
by
Kathy
Webb
series